Tag: Kama Sutra

In This article we are going to look at what the Kama Sutra is about and cover the three best positions for sexual enjoyment.

We will be doing articles on subsequent topics in the book, but for now its a general intro and those 3 best positions!

The Kama Sutra, is an ancient Hindu book which was and still is a guide to human behavior, including sexual behavior.

It is organized in seven sections which address the seven ages of a man.

In section 1, the man enters maturity and creates his own residence. In the second section, the man studies and practices sexual skills

Actually only 20% of the Kama Sutra is about sexual techniques. This section (two) contains a total of 8 sexual positions, of which each has 8 variants, so you end up with 64 positions for the joining of a man and woman, This section is often mistaken as being the whole of the Kama Sutra.

Section three gives the secrets of seducing and copulating with a virgin, but no sexual techniques, only advice. The following 4th section is the book of the householder, and the man marries with much advice about the home and family.

Section five assumes the man is bored with marriage, so the treatise explains how to seduce other mens wives for variety. The next section assume the man has tired with other mens wives, so it focus on relations with prostitutes (or more mildly called courtesans, but it means the same thing. Sex and affection for money)

The last section finds the man in his 7th stage, and in fear of losing his sexual potency and libido, so it gives recipes for regaining them (somewhat like todays Viagra). The man is advised to boil sparrows’ eggs in milk and then mix in ghee (clarified butter) and honey. It is meant to revive the mans potency.

3 Best Sexual Positions

Returning to the second section, we will cover three very interesting and highly sexual positions for maximum enjoyment by both the man and the woman.

The first of these positions is called The Coil. This is perhaps the best position for a woman to arrive quickly at a deep and profound orgasm. In this position the mans penis presses and rubs the womans clitoris while the vagina is penetrated. The woman lies down near the edge of the bed and rotates her legs to one side or the other of her body.

The man kneels in front of her, and penetrates deeply. Her clitoris is jammed between the vaginal lips, and the mans penis. In this position, the woman and relax or contract her whole pelvic area. She quickly arrives at an orgasm.

The second position is known as Filling the Well. In this position, the man completely penetrates the woman to the maximum extent (of his penis). With the woman lying on her back, she brings her legs to her chest, and rests her feet on the mans shoulders, who is on top of her, but supporting his own weight on his outstretched arms.

This position shortens the distance of the vagina and womb, and the man enters as is as deep as possible. The man must be careful, as his penetration is so deep that it can cause pain. There is no thrusting, only the man moves in a circular or pulsating movement. The woman quickly arrives to completion, and should the man finish himself in this position, pregnancy is very possible if precautions are not taken.

The last position covered here is the Arc of Love The man in a sitting position on the bed leans back slightly supporting himself with his two arms. His legs are stretched out in front of him and slightly apart.

The woman is the active partner in this pose, so she passes her legs over his, and leans back (as he is) supporting her body with her own arms as well.

The woman assures the man has penetrated her, and all movement is hers. The clitoris in this way is highly stimulated, and as the woman undulates, orgasm quickly arrives to both her and him.

Real people in adult movies many of you may find this hard to believe, but this is a relatively new concept. Starting with the launch of Redtube.com in 2005, “Real Sex” rapidly became the consumers choice over traditional porn which dominated the industry for over a century.

Over the last 4 years Australia has been drowned in “reality porn”. From Youjizz.com to Porntube.com, there is no end to list of websites to choose from when looking for amateur adult entertainment. So I decided to do a little research, just to see what the fuss was all about.

Nearly 3 weeks and 66 coffees later I had rummaged through all the major websites, taking notes along the way on what was good and bad about them all. What I found was quite surprising. They all lacked the story behind the sex. So on one hand there was “traditional porn” that told a story, but wasnt real, and on the other hand there was “reality porn” which was real, but didnt tell a story.

So I set out on a mission to find out whether there was anyoneanywhere making films with both, real people and a story line. On my travels I only stumbled upon one company that was doing it, Comstock Films.

In the article Eyes Wide Open featured in the July 2007 issue of Oprah Winfreys O Magazine, Violet Blue writes: “Comstock Films, maker of high-quality, documentary-style, real-couples videos, aggressively markets to women with the simple tagline “Women love real sex”. Director Tony Comstock shows what it looks like when two people who are in love have sex,” says Blue. “It’s beautifulthe antithesis of shapeless, boring porn in which everyone is just going through the motions.”

Comstock Films produces films about sex nothing more and nothing less. If you want to see the TV repair man walking in on an unsuspecting busty blonde, you might want to look elsewhere. There is no airbrushing, no fake orgasms, and certainly no threesomes or orgies for that matter.

These movies tell a story about couples who are passionately in love with each other, but thats not the best part. Viewers are able to watch these couples grow together, and find out how they feel about each other through interviews and commentary before watching them make love. This is groundbreaking stuff. The intimacy between these couples is all that matters. No devices or special techniques are necessary as there are adoring connections between the couples in these films. And with such passion, no sex toys, Kama Sutra, or even sexy costumes are necessary to intensify the film.

Raw, real sex that’s what Comstock Films offers with hot results.

How Real Is Too Real?

Granted, sex without all of the bells and whistles of traditional pornography can sometimes seem a little dull. Sometimes pornography becomes a more wildly sexual experience because it delves into the realm of fantasy. However, I think that it can sometimes be difficult to relate to the traditional porn films. If a man or woman wants to find a partner similar to the actors on the latest installment of “Debbie Does Dallas” they are going to have to start frequenting some pretty questionable night spots.

Real sex also has its mistakes, its missteps, and its flaws. Not every movement is perfect, sometimes people aren’t moving completely in sync, and often the couples are hesitant about being too risqu. However, as the couples move across the screen, viewers realize that while the performances aren’t perfect they’re also not performers. The imperfections then become a large part of the films realism, making it all the more enjoyable. In the article “Sex Homework” featured in Womens Health in November 2006, real life couple Stacey and Bryce said this about one of the Comstock favorites, Xana and Dax, “Its a real couple having sex. They looked like people we would know and be attracted to. We loved Xana and Dax because theyre a real couple, with genuine orgasms and a sincere admiration for each other. We watched it straight through, and even though we were as tired as usual, we had sex right after.

Why Real Life Needs More Real People

75% of all Australian couples we interviewed believed that most pornography movies they had watched seemed fake. They thought that the performers and their orgasms just weren’t believable.

There’s enough pressure already on men and women to have ‘perfect’ sex, so why should the pornography industry promote this unrealistic ideal? With Comstock Films, those that view the movies see people just like them imperfections and all.

Not only is this reassuring, but it’s empowering. Seeing someone else with the same body type or the same desires in the bedroom encourages the viewer to try new things for themselves, to see themselves as a potential porn star as well even if they never pull out a camera.

Choosing Porn That Pleases

People watch adult films for any number of reasons:

* For stimulation There is no aphrodisiac like watching others have sex to set the mood. A hot adult movie can sometimes get a man or woman to a heightened state of arousal before sex ensuring an orgasm during sex.
* For bedroom ideas There are many things you can learn from watching pornography. The use of sex toys for example can create a whole new dimension in the bedroom. Vibrators, dildos, and clitoral stimulators which are used in many adult films can provide that extra stimulation needed to bring your partner to orgasm. Not to mention, these movies showcase a wealth of experience in Kama Sutra and modern sexual positions.
* To enhance intimacy in a relationship Couples who watch porn together enhance their intimacy by breaking down the false idea that pornography is somehow dirty or deviant.

Porn comes in a variety of shapes, sizes, and fetishes. But the one fetish that hasn’t been explored as much as couples might like is the idea of real people having real sex.

Thank goodness for Comstock Films. The documentary style filming makes a viewer feel as though they are peeking into a bedroom, much like their own, and getting a personal show.

Never intrusive, though often intimate, the real life sex films create a connection with the audience in ways that the over-glamorized pornography world cannot.

Another Bedroom Scene

The bedroom becomes a difficult place to navigate when all of the role models are filled with silicone or have extraordinarily large penises. With real people on the screen, real couples in real life can not only have genuine role models, but also a hot taste of what others are doing to show their partners they care. Sure, real sex can be messy, but it’s real. And that’s what counts.